Ok so just had a fight with my long distance scorpio boyfriend. HELP! im aquarian.?

just feel like he doesn't get me. I act polite and make him understand things in an intellectual proper way. but sometimes m unable to be polite like today u know. He just stops answering and doesnt participate in the talk anymore. why? when i make him understand so properly (anyone would easily get my point of view but he doesnt!!!!!!) now how do i make it work cuz honestly he doesnt make any effort and acts hurt and m the one to always solve all our conflicts. HELP (no rude comments plz..this is serious matter!)